Dearest mom, everyday without you  not being here to share my wonderful memories has been the hardest. I know how proud you would have been seeing me graduate this month. November will continue to be a mixed  bag to me. For one, its my birth month, Joy's (your latest grand daughter) birthday, same month of your demise and then my graduation from college. You know what mom, I will continue to take solace in your legacy and that is, your generous heart and amazing spirit to live in peace with one another. You were a rare gem. Your from this contentious place has left a big void in the family in general. Your depature is felt especially at momemts of celebrations and at times of crisis cos truly you were that glue that held people together. A shoulder to lean on and my greatest cheer leader. Oh ! How I miss your phone calls. Your zealous attitude to achieve your goals would remain the drive I need to push through, over come lifes adversities and it would remain tucked away deep in my the heart. Today, I write not with heavy heart ( never thought I'd get there)  but of a reminder of a life well spent. Your were audacious daring to lead life to its fullest.... no apologies. Love you mom for being you. Adieu